#Relationships
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How to Build Good Relationships Inside and Outside Your Engineering Team
The post says engineers collaborate better when they build good relationships, because isolation leads to uncertainty and weaker impact. It recommends reciprocity, trust, respect, and time spent on personal topics and shared interests.
How a Senior Engineer Effectively Onboards at a New Job
The article says senior engineers should spend the first weeks learning the org, meeting teammates, asking questions, setting achievable 90-day goals, and finding small early wins while staying open to feedback.
Lessons learned in 35 years of making software
Jim Grey says 35 years in software taught him lessons about simplicity, frequent delivery, visibility, networking, willingness to learn, and focusing on relationships and power.
How to Win Friends and Influence People
The text summarizes Dale Carnegie's book as a set of techniques for changing other people's behavior by changing one's own behavior, with an emphasis on praise, listening, empathy, and avoiding conflict.
PeopleWork: Intentions, Policies, Observations
00:39:55 — PeopleWork: Intentions, Policies, and Observations
Give-First Mentality Over Transactional Networking
00:30:37 — Give-First Mentality Over Transactional Networking
Four Groups Every Network Needs
00:29:23 — Four Groups Every Network Needs
If a Woman Has These Habits, She's Likely a Low-Quality Person
The page lists 11 habits it treats as red flags in a woman, including badmouthing exes, needing reassurance, refusing responsibility, ignoring boundaries, and avoiding conflict.
When two people are perfect for each other, these 8 things always happen
The page lists eight signs of a well-matched relationship, from comfortable silence and shared laughter to aligned values, emotional safety, and support for each other's goals.
Not money or fame: Harvard’s 85-year-long study shows why relationships matter most for happiness
The Harvard Study of Adult Development says the strongest predictor of happiness and longevity is the quality of close, supportive relationships, along with healthy habits, resilience, and community ties.
Love in Chinese Culture Part 5: "Attack with Fire"
The post uses Chapter 12 of The Art of War to read conflict in relationships. It links emotional caution, Bruce Lee, and Chuang Tzu to the need to avoid acting while angered or blinded by the urge to win.